road trip to duluth was fun but duluth was chilly!! Sunday we went shopping at home goods because they were having an extra one day clearance. found some bargains! new sheets & curtain sets for the house. Then homemade salsa made from the garden supply...yum! I cleaned the entire house & organized all our closets. I even did all the bedding including the pillowtop & mattress pads. I'm pretty proud of myself for working so hard =) but I'm exhausted today because I've been going too much & it's catching up with me. Last week was crazy! Hopefully this week will be better. Jay & I are creating a list of fun fall things to do this year. It's my absolute favorite time of the year...we have the usuals (apple orchard, carving pumpkins, etc.) but if anyone has any unique suggestions let us know =) Monday, August 31, 2009
Weekend recap
road trip to duluth was fun but duluth was chilly!! Sunday we went shopping at home goods because they were having an extra one day clearance. found some bargains! new sheets & curtain sets for the house. Then homemade salsa made from the garden supply...yum! I cleaned the entire house & organized all our closets. I even did all the bedding including the pillowtop & mattress pads. I'm pretty proud of myself for working so hard =) but I'm exhausted today because I've been going too much & it's catching up with me. Last week was crazy! Hopefully this week will be better. Jay & I are creating a list of fun fall things to do this year. It's my absolute favorite time of the year...we have the usuals (apple orchard, carving pumpkins, etc.) but if anyone has any unique suggestions let us know =) Simple Woman's Daybook.
Outside my window...
I am thankful for...
From the kitchen...
I am reading...
I am hearing...
new curtains & sheets...yay!!
Here is picture thought I am sharing...

Saturday, August 29, 2009
Road trip!!
Friday, August 28, 2009
What we've been up too...
The Soloist-this was pretty good! It's a bit slow paced at times but the message is good & I liked the ending. As a psych major at one point, I've studied schizophrenia in depth so it was really interesting to watch. We thought Jamie Foxx did a really good job! It is a little depressing though.
Great movie!! We were laughing hysterically (so much that I was crying at some parts) This was one of my favorites of the year...great story, great actors, great ending. You should definetly see this one!
This was just ok for me-I read the book prior to the movie & have to say it's one of my favorites. The movie however did not come even close to the book. I thought they left out way too many important parts of the book and someone who has not read the book (my hubby) would not totally understand the story & he didn't get enough information or time to attach to the main characters...so he thought it was overall very sad. I was able to look past that in the book because you are able to read so much about their lives together & really appreciate their relationship and feel sympathy for them. You really get a lot of good stories of their lives in the book. The movie is still worth seeing but it's choppy & doesn't flow very well. Bring tissues!
I don't know why but I enjoyed this movie. I'll admit it's really weird, but it's also real life. You see the struggles of a family dealing with the death (suicide) of their mother & how it touches their lives. It's depressing at times but the ending is happy & overall it made me feel really normal & good about my life!Random Fact Friday
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Thoughts on Thursdays...
You only get out of a marriage what you put into it.
A young enterpreneur starts with an idea for a unique, new product. He carefully lays plans for a start-up business, calculating revenues and expenses. He meets with consultants, accountants, and attorneys. He works hard to sell the concept to banks and investors to raise capital. In time he leases space, purchases equipment, and hires employees. Finally he is ready to begin. He works hard, pouring himself into the business, determined to make it succeed. And it thrives. But does he merely sit back, relax, and enjoy the fruit of his labor? No! He works harder than ever, while conjuring up ideas for improving efficiency, bettering customer relations, creating profit.
If a marriage is to last a lifetime, it requires the same level of devotion and energy. Both partners must give 100 percent. Each must be available to the other when needed, fully present, ready to listen, to talk, to act. Both spouses must pour their heart and soul into this enterprise, making whatever sacrifice necessary to ensure success.
Yet what an investment! The payoff is a rich, healthy, loving relationship that lasts. And everyone involved reaps countless rewards. Sound good? Devote time and energy to your marriage.
Whoever sows generously will also reap generously. 2 Corinthians 9:6
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Good dinner & better conversation.
I'll also be posting some more on my photography blog so stay tuned....
Random thoughts...
.decided i shouldn't.
Monday, August 24, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook.
a beautiful summer day!
I am thinking...
how excited I am for fall.
my perfect, precious, beautiful, incredible (I could go on forever!) baby sister.
someone else's kitchen tonight =)
capris & a turquoise shirt.
I am creating...
a thoughts on thursday button for our blog.
I am reading...
dragonfly in amber...it's like 800 pages!
I am hoping...
I get some good one on one time with my hubby tonight.
I am learning...
new things about photography every day...yay!!
silence...ahhh so nice being alone in the office sometimes =)
Around the house...
One of my favorite things...
the feeling of laying down for the first time in bed after a very long day.
A few plans for the rest of the week...
finishing Al's senior pictures tonight, taking her out to dinner, 4 sessions this week, dinner date with an old friend & duluth this weekend! phew!

{thoughts on thursdays update}
Sunday, August 23, 2009
weekend fun

Friday, August 21, 2009
Have a happy weekend!
Have a happy Friday everyone!
Random Fact Friday

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Thursday, August 20, 2009
Thoughts on Thursdays...
Jay is called to love me & die for me as Christ died for the church. He is called to love me as he loves himself & how he wants to be loved. To care for me first, to love me first. He is called to leave his family to unite only and totally to me. To me. That's a pretty big calling if you ask me. sometimes I don't even want to be united to myself.
I am called to respect him. Sometimes I really struggle with this. Not totally, just little instances. Why? because I've lived a pretty independent life even through the years of dating him. We dated from age 15 to 23 & then married. I've always done what I wanted or what I thought was right & made my own decisions. Living 4.5 hours apart from each other for 4 years of college didn't help either. I got used to being the boss & depending on myself. Plus, anyone who knows me knows that I am a pretty strong-willed woman =) So when issues arrise, I jump to make the decision & decides what is best, (and sometimes judge his opinion or ideas) thinking I am always right. I need to make a daily effort to let him lead our life (with my input of course ;) and to trust that his decisions are sound & valuable. I just need to respect him more. Bless his precious heart for letting me take the reins of our relationship when I feel the need & for quietly holding his tongue in the process. There'a a bible verse that refers to removing the plank from your own eye before removing the speck from your neighbors. This one hits me up the side of the head all. the. time. Instead of focusing on what he should do better, or what he should fix-I need to worry about what I should work on.
One of the biggest things I've learned about marriage is that I can't change my husband-and-he's not just like me. Just as God accepts me with all of my flaws, scars, & problems-I have to accept him for who he is and let him be the man God intended him to be. He's also not a reflection of myself. He doesn't like to read every day & he's not addicted to reality tv shows & he doesn't like fried pickles (!!). But that's ok. Just because I like those things doesn't mean he naturally does too (without my influence or his patience). and it's ok.
Marriage takes a lot of selflessness, acceptance & respect.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Happy Birthdays!!

Had coffee with a girlfriend last night that I don't see nearly enough. It was so great catching up with her & hearing all the great news about her life. Can't wait to see her again soon! I catch myself complaining that I am so busy all the time, but how lucky I am to be so busy-because it means I am blessed with an abundance of friends. lucky me. Did I stress that enough? lucky me.
Monday, August 17, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook.
I am thankful for...
From the kitchen...
I am wearing...
I am going...
Here is picture thought I am sharing...a relaxing bath with green tea.
Happy Monday!


After the Brewery we headed to the Mall of America for some shopping & dinner. Living in Two Harbors, Cheri doesn't get much shopping variety....so I know she had a great time shopping at the largest mall in America! Sunday Jay & I got up and had a date day. We got some lunch and then headed to the Twins game for the afternoon. Too bad the Twins couldn't pull it together & win against the Indians.
After the game I was needing some motherly & sisterly bonding time in a major way. Luckily, they were thinking the same thing! I had a few missed calls from my sister during the game so I went over to Mama's & hung out with them for the night while Jay ran some errands for us (grocery store, etc.) He's so good to me. Tonight I'm having coffee with a friend & then we are headed back to my Mom's to celebrate her birthday !
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Positivity
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Las Vegas
Friday, August 14, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Link me!
I can't believe it's already thursday!! wow this week is just flying by. Last night on a whim Jenni & I went to the Melting Pot for dinner. It was so delicious but left us both feeling stuffed (but satisfied) It was a nice choice because it was really a treat & we were able to eat slowly & get a lot of talking done =) Tonight I have a session in a field (yay!!) and then I'm getting a much needed haircut. After that it's time to prepare for the weekend and all the festivities happening. Today is the thursday farmers market on nicollet mall so I think I'll grab some fresh fruit & vegetables to make some yummy food over the weekend!
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Sacred.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook.
a hot & hazy day.
I am thinking...
From the kitchen...
I am wearing...
a purple t-shirt, jeans & flip flops.
I am creating...
I am going...
to go home & enjoy my free night =)
I am reading...
Dragonfly in Amber by Diana Gabaldan
I am hoping...
the day goes by fast so I can be on my way.
I am hearing...
david gray sing to me.
Around the house...
it's kind of messy today!
One of my favorite things...
real laughter (the kind that hurts your stomach)
A few plans for the rest of the week...
Here is picture thought I am sharing...simple but beautiful.

"There was just enough heat to enhance the value of the breeze, and just enough wind to keep the whole sea in motion, to make the waves come bounding to the shore, foaming and sparkling, as if wild with glee."~Anne Bronte
Outlander
Fun weekends
This week is super busy! I have another session on Thursday & then Friday Jay's Mom is coming into town for the weekend. Friday is also the first pre-season Vikings game!!!! can't wait to watch that. We've got a fun weekend planned for Cheri's visit so we are looking forward to that. I'm still tired from the weekend so we are going to lay low & rest up for this coming weekend. It's already Tuesday though & I know this week will go fast. We've had some fun back-to-back weekends lately....that's what summer is all about!
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Investments
Life moves quickly & I can't figure out if people really change drasticly or if I just grow wiser & see them in a different light? Or maybe it's both? Whatever it is, there is an air of negitivity that's starting to bother me. I find that some people are in a constant state of negativity & judgement. What happened to tolerance? I never understand why people waste their energy on the negative aspects of life. And what about the people that you put so much energy into & you can tell they really only care about number 1? Or they keep in touch when they need something from you. I have realized that I put way too much into certain relationships without anything in return & it's time to make a change. I am too nice sometimes & I know I get taken advantage of. I really care about my friendships but I can only go so far on my own, because it's a two way street. If you aren't going to invest in me than I'm going to stop investing in you...because I know I'm worth it. I constantly see loved ones hurting in this way too. I wish people could just take a breather & realize that treating people that way only makes them feel worse about themselves in the end.
The other thing that's been bothering me is the state of turmoil the world is in due to our politics & our president. I am so sick of people putting others down or making judgement based on their political views. I hate partisan politics. Who are you to judge someone about what they believe anyways? Somebody may not believe in the same things that I do, but I don't think they are a lesser person because of it & I certainly don't hate them. Isn't that what America is all about? the freedom of speech, choice, beliefs, etc.? Just a little food for thought....
Thank you to the people that invest in me. You know who you are & I love you for that. I hold you all dear to my heart!!
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Simple Woman's Daybook.

Monday, August 3, 2009
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society
Catching up
Jay was out of town Saturday through Sunday for his districts softball tournament, so I spent a lot of time editing my last few sessions & finishing that up. I shot a maternity session for Emily & Colin on Saturday & it was really fun to be able to see them & catch up on their life & baby news! Thanks you two! I've even finished editing their session because I had the evening free (amazing, I know!! hah) & it's nice to stay caught up. On Sunday Jay planned a surprise date for me which entailed lunch at Cossetta's & the Titantic exhibit at the Science Museum. It was so much fun! we shared some pizza at Cossetta's & really enjoyed the time together. The exhibit was amazing-so many cool artifacts & personal stories. We got to "board" the ship, & were given tickets with real passengers names & information on them. It was weird to think they were real people. It was really neat because at the end you got to find out if you lived or died. It was a great date & ended on a perfect note....ice cream :) Thanks babo!!



Paris. Can't wait to go to the real one next summer!!
(we think) Nothing beats a live acoustic concert by OAR.